I want to take revenge on my narcissist cheating ex who made me life miserable. She was after my visa sponsorship. Would it hurt her if I reminded her how she lost the opportunity of a great life by cheating?
Does Reminding a Narcissist of Lost Visa Sponsorship Hurt?
It's natural to feel hurt and angry after being betrayed, but seeking revenge rarely leads to the closure or peace you're looking for. Here are some things to consider before taking any action:
1. Focus on Yourself:
o The best way to move forward is to focus on your growth and happiness. Use this experience as motivation to build a better life.
o When you thrive, it speaks volumes, and others will naturally notice what they lost.
2. Impact of Revenge:
o Reminding her of what she lost might hurt her, but it could also backfire by giving her power over your emotions.
o Revenge may keep you tied to the negativity of the past, preventing you from truly moving on.
3. Long-Term Fulfillment:
o Instead of dwelling on her mistakes, channel your energy into building meaningful relationships, career goals, or personal achievements.
o True closure comes from healing, not from trying to make someone else feel regret.
4. Consider Perspective:
o If she was only after your visa sponsorship, you may have ultimately dodged a worse situation. Recognize this as a lesson and an opportunity to seek a more genuine connection in the future.
Final Thought:
The best ""revenge"" is living a happy, fulfilling life. Let your success and happiness speak for itself—without needing to point it out to her.
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